this is really weird..im 16. i own a problem w/ guys. there is this one guy who like me and always glance at me but i try to avoid eye contact and pretend i don't even notice him! i don't know what is wrong next to me...? also, whenever i see a cute guy in public or doesn`t matter what, i kinda try to avoid looking at him or making eyecontact or anything like that and only pretend i don't see him? i don't know what i'm so scared of...? also, i CAN'T flirt!! this one guy the other year who practices with my basketball squad was poking fun at me and stuff and i be just approaching smiling or whatever. and he said "you're too softness, you need to agree more." i don't consider myself unattractive it's merely i will probably never get a boyfriend at this rate! how do i relocate this? i don't even have a single guy friend...abet..what's wrong with me and how can i vary? i want to be less freaked out roughly guys .!!

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Nothing is wrong next to you. Avoiding eye contact is being coy and sometimes considered flirting. At 16 you hold PLENTY of time to find a fella. Don't rush the right one!!

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I think your in recent times really shy. Maybe your scared they won't close to you back.

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Play tag ,,,,, freshly go up and touch him after turn and walk away ,, don't look stern just walk on about your buisiness , variety it your mission to touch him every day , even if you hold to do it while he is looking at you , but smile if he cetches you in the deed , if he says something to you a moment ago say "excuse me ,Im sorry,, I'm sorry ", but touch him anyway , and amble away ,, be sure to walk away , dont run though ,,,,,, simply do it !! seriously ,,, Do it !!

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yu arent alone my friend. i always thought it be weird too.. but its the track we are..lik we get nerovous and adjectives.. they say tht if yu win eye contact is cuz yu lik them, but im different..i guess i get shy and nervy. and guys also say tht im really peaceable, but actually its jst when im around someoen i resembling. i lik get aafraid of idk wht...lik of saw or doing something worng i guess..idk...but i def wish i wasz rather bit more extrovertent with guysz..they believe im intimidating..

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Hey
I'm a lot approaching you. Well I was. I am 15 presently and I used to be the same.
But after putting myself out to collaborate to the guy that I like I become less close to the introverted person that I used to be and instead very soon I am far more confident around all guys.
So only just act easily and talk to them little by little even so that they can see that you are not as shy and possibly as 'snobby' as they may have a sneaking suspicion that that you are.
Some guys perceive shyness as snobbishness as one said to me 'I always thought that you be really stuck up and arrogant'
And as for the flirting thing... capably do whatever comes to you smoothly, maybe at first don't be to coy and flirtatious especially if these guys know you for your usually shy self.

Hope that this help.

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