My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 months now and we be best friends for 2 years before dating. We will be sophomores at different colleges that are over 6 hours apart and we both leave on Sunday. The last couple of days own been very hard on my girlfriend- she didn't gross the amount of money she was expecting in tips from her job at a summercamp, she hasn't begin packing yet for school, and she hasn't begun practicing for her musical auditions (she is a music through!). Tonight she called me and as we were talking have a panic attack about all the things I in recent times mentioned and as I was trying to help, she hung up on me, texted me and said she needed a few minutes before she call back. Then she called back and apologized but said she is still extremely stressed. I tried consoling her and mentioned that I'd approaching to take her out for a nice dinner before we both go away, and she snapped at me adage "I DONT HAVE TIME! I need to do all these things and I only enjoy four more nights at home! You should've told me this earlier!" Then I apologized and told her to take a gaping breath and relax and she said "I can't relax!" and we still ended the call saying I love you and goodnight, but I hung up the phone outstandingly stressed and frustrated, and I can't even imagine how she's feeling. What can I do? This isn't my fault but I grain horrible for her and for some reason I feel like it's my blemish even though it's not! Please help!
Thanks!

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i can guarantee you that she feels horrible right now, too. i snap at my bf when i'm stressed, too. it's what us girls do. and being so far apart, it might even return with a little worse. but don't worry. she'll always know that she loves you. even if she's frustrated.
and i know that you're frustrated, too. that's usual of course. but you have to remember that girls are much more sensitive than guys are, even for no reason. right very soon she's just stressing. after she's finished the things she needs to do, she'll feel better.
suggest helping her. report her you'll help her pack. bring dinner to her by surprise. she'll love that. and if she gets edgy while you're helping her, it's because she's worried about losing you.
a short time ago be a little patient. she loves you and you love her. don't let stress acquire in the way.
remember to take a weighty breath and remember that she's just being sensitive. (don't tell her that, tho. she'll carry pretty mad, lol)

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You're her boyfriend so she's gonna need you to be the steady one in the relationship.

Women don't approaching men who are as panicky as them.

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She's probably having some anxiety over you being apart too. I would articulate you could try to offer to help her with any of the stuff she have left to do to prepare for Sunday. Also she might be getting nervous about going away from home, a unknown school can be scary. Just offer your oblige and remind her your there for her. Us girls are generally more emotional afterwards you guys and hopefully you just being patient next to her will help her. Good luck to both of you.

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