Is it phenomenal to not enjoy friends?
I hang out next to, say, the people I surf with but it STAYS IN THE WATER.. I don't -want- to walk to the movies with them or hang out with them outside of these areas. Same go for people that I go to school near. When I go home.. I just want to relax and be left alone. I don't want schoolbook messages, phone calls, etc.
Answers:
No. You just like being alone. You're okay beside that.
If you are really, truly lively and okay with it, then sure. Why not? For me, when I start withdrawing and not socializing, its usually because I am feeling depressed. Others may brand that assumption about you. But, if you are happy and not lonely. then to be precise fine. Everyone is different and everyone has different needs.
I've never really had any close friends. Even in lofty school and since, and that was over 20 years ago. I can't even say I've have a best friend. Most of the time I would much rather be left alone. I just don't touch like dealing with people. And I'm really desperate at conversation and it seems when I try to be someones friend, they don't know how to be one back so I just don't try anymore.
well i haven't really have friends for a while either. i don't really understand the social thing when nation start talking and going on about god knows what. i guess we only kind of like our own company & do what we want without mortal bothered by others.
You are probably fearful of judgment like most individuals are and that is why you prefer to remain alone.
It is abnormal from the average population point of view but they could diligence less about it so do not worry going on for it.
You probably have a rare personality or some special potential or rare physical trait that makes you feel this means of access.
It is not bad enough for anyone to think smaller quantity of you more then 2 seconds let alone to detestation you for it.
If it is normal for you it does not matter what others think.You do not socialize next to them anyway.
The only way to conquer your fears is to face them.Most those are not so scary as you might think.
They will accept most of your traits if you endow with them a chance.
Hey! :D
Your question actually made me laugh.
Do you avoid phone call? (I know you said you don't distribute your number, but still..)
Emails? Messages on Myspace/Facebook (if you have something like that)
What's funny is that you are cool with this isolated behavior.
I enjoy social anxiety disorder, and I have friends, but I don't want to hang out outside of school, I don't want them calling me (I never answer the phone), and I don't preserve up with my Myspace, and I sure as sh*t don't want to go to there houses (though I hold, I count the hours til I go back home.)
If I don't have a personal agenda, I don't want it. (Like limp out with a guy...which I don't date either.)
I feel unpromising though, and I know this behavior is excessive and marinated in paranoia.
Have you always been approaching this? Or is this something that came about in the closing 6 months?
If it starts being something you mind, talk to your doctor. If not, your a grown up, I think you'll brand name the right decision
Good luck, man! xD.
i'm just close to that, i love just going shopping, surfing, for long walks or bike rides on my own.
i've never been perfect at making friends, i've never needed any either.
i suppose we do it becasue theres no one there to breed us go somewhere we dont feel like going and sometimes race just like to be alone more than others.
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