My mom dosn't thieve thought of me AT ALL. HOW CAN I TAKE CARE OF MYSELF?
First, I know she is a widow, but it's almost a year now, and I am her legal responsibility.
1) She thinks I'm underweight and anorexic. I'm not anorexic, I newly am too damn busy to eat and I don't feel hunger (Weird but true, I can last days without).
2) She refuse to buy clothes, giving me a whopping 100$ for jeans/shoes/shirts this year.
3) She makes me do all her dishes when she's the only one who eat.
4) I don't get an allowance... Really.
5) She calls me every 30 minutes, either near a joke or complaining about me, or demanding I do something which she clearly is capable of doing.
6) She think I'm the only person in the family connections who can work because I'm a man.
7) This is all disrupting my studies.
8) She refuses any criticism and will not communicate with me. I try to communicate beside a therapist but she makes excuses to ditch me at the office.
9) She call me wonderfully descriptive things such as "Grungy Kid" "********" "Pretentious child (She's failing college, while I'm in AP + more, as a FRESHMAN)" "Parasite" "Fat *** (99 pounds and 14)"
10) She refuses to let me hang up out with anyone either because of race or because they live contained by appartments.
What do I do? I DON'T KNOW. THAT ***** IS OPPRESSING ME. SHE WAS A GOLDDIGGER AND WORKED MY DAD TO DEATH, LITERALLY, TAUNTING HIM TO THE GRAVE, AND IS NOW PUTTING UP A SHOW AND MAKING ME DO ALL HER WORK. I AM NOT HER SECOND HUSBAND!!
HELP!!
Answers:
i think the lone way to do it is to tell it to her strait tell her that she wants to sort herself out and stop dragging you down with her its just selfish and you dont deserve it, but equally it does sound like shes got some seriouse isssues that she wishes to sort out and maby she needs a counselor or something
Thats' too bad. I'm from Brazil. I don't know english very well, but i get your trouble.
Your mather need your help, but you need her.
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To be honest, she reminds me of my father. Only I have a mom who's pretty okay so I don't have as many problems as you enjoy.
However, if I were in your situation, I would personally walk to Child Services and tell them what's going on. Your mother is not fit to be a parent and you deserve a much better mother than her. You could become a great man and she is stifling you with her petty whims and keeping you from your studies. Ignore her comments about you. I hold been called a witch, a fat ***, an evil innocent *****, and much more by my father and he tries to intimidate me but I just know that if he tries anything I will surely call the police and therefore he cannot startle me. You shouldn't be effected by your mother's rants either.
I'm not truism it's the best idea to call Child Services or the police for child neglect (which is what she's doing), but it's for sure an option.
You'll probably get a bunch of people proverb "contact me if you need help" or something of the sort. Well, I'm not saying I can exactly help you but you can contact me anyway if you want to rant more or less your mom when she's pissing you off. My e-mail is le_vampress(a)hotmail.com if you decide to contact me.
Not sure if I helped, but I honestly surface bad for ya. It must be hard to have a dictator for a mother. If she's anything close to my dad then I REALLY feel sorry for you!
...But anyway, yeah, believe it or not, I know where you're coming from. Source(s): Bah, disorderly. >.>
It sounds like you're already taking care of yourself.
If you obligation more guidance, I'd look for a Boy Scout manual (I think they are also called "handbooks") at a library. They enjoy loads of ways to empower you. And if you think it's a load, then at lowest you saw what it had to offer. Still though, you can learn greatly from a little book.
Honestly, also try eating a fruit and a vegetable each morning. I'd try a different one each day, until I find ones I like. Once you find ones you close to, each more of those, and you'll find your energy come back to you. (of course, you'll benefit from more calories found in bread and meat, which is the real fuel for your body)
Good luck!
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